When Someone Dies Unexpectedly
We understand this is an incredibly difficult time. You don't have to navigate this alone.
Take Your Time
There's no rush to complete everything at once. Focus on what feels manageable right now, and remember that it's okay to ask for help.
"Grief is the price we pay for love." — You are not alone in this journey.
Immediate Steps
- Call 911 if death was unexpected or unattended
- Contact their doctor if death was expected
- Reach out to close family and friends
- Locate will, insurance policies, and ID documents
- Secure valuable items and property
- Care for any pets or dependents
First Week Priorities
Choose a funeral home and begin planning services that honor their memory.
Tip: Don't feel pressured to make expensive decisions immediately
Order multiple certified copies - you'll need them for various processes.
Tip: Order 10-15 copies to avoid delays later
Contact life insurance companies and begin the claims process.
Tip: Most policies require notification within 30 days
You Don't Have to Do This Alone
Immediate Support
- Ask family and friends to help with calls and arrangements
- Consider hiring a funeral director to guide you
- Reach out to your spiritual or religious community
Professional Help
- Estate attorney for legal matters
- Accountant for financial and tax issues
- Grief counselor for emotional support
In the Coming Weeks and Months
These tasks can wait until you're ready. There's no timeline you need to follow except your own.
Financial and Legal
- Probate court proceedings (if needed)
- Close bank accounts and credit cards
- Transfer or cancel utilities and subscriptions
- File final tax returns
Personal and Memorial
- Sort through personal belongings
- Create memorial or tribute
- Distribute meaningful items to family
- Consider charitable donations in their memory