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    How to Support Someone Grieving

    Supporting someone through grief can be challenging — but small, thoughtful actions can make a big difference.

    Caring forDifferent Grief
    Personas

    Everyone processes grief differently. Understanding someone’s style can help you support them better.

    The Open Heart

    The Open Heart

    They cry, talk, and share feelings. Sit with them, listen, and validate.

    The Seeker

    The Seeker

    They ask big questions, seeking meaning. Be willing to explore, listen.

    The Quiet Anchor

    The Quiet Anchor

    They grieve privately. Respect their space, but show you are present.

    The Steady Hand

    The Steady Hand

    They focus on logistics. Offer practical help and acknowledge efforts.

    Sometimes the Best Support is
    Showing Up.

    It’s natural to feel unsure of what to say or do when someone is grieving. What matters most is showing up with care and consistency.

    Gentle practice
    • Be specific in your help.

      Instead of “Let me know if you need anything,” try “I can bring dinner tomorrow — would that help?

    • Keep showing up.

      Grief doesn’t end after the first week. Gentle check-ins and small gestures matter.

    • Listen more than you talk.

      Sometimes the best support is quiet presence. You don’t need to fix their pain — just witness it.

    Saying You Care

    Thoughtful phrases to support and validate feelings during grief.

    I don’t have the right words, but I’m here for you.

    I’d love to support you however you prefer.

    Just wanted to let you know I was thinking of you.

    I know grief won’t be a straight line — I’m here for the messy parts too.

    Holding space for you and your feelings.

    Take all the time you need — I’m with you.

    You don’t have to go through this alone.

    If you need anything, I’m just a call away.

    Don’t Forget to Take Care of Yourself

    Take a moment to focus on your own wellbeing.

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    Other Ways to Give Support

    Amazon Gift Ideas

    Amazon Gift Ideas

    Curated gifts to comfort loved ones experiencing loss and grief.

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    Send a Meal

    Send a Meal

    Nourish them by sending a warm meal through a delivery service.

    DoorDash
    Order a Cleaning

    Order a Cleaning

    Take small tasks off their plate by gifting a home cleaning service.

    TaskRabbit