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    Guidance for Immediately After a Death

    If at Home (Not in Hospice)
    Call 911

    Contact emergency services to have the death legally pronounced. They will provide next steps.

    If at Home (With Hospice)
    Call the Hospice Nurse

    Notify the hospice nurse. They will guide you through the process and handle necessary arrangements.

    If in a Hospital or Facility
    Follow Staff Guidance

    Hospital or facility staff will manage documentation and guide you through the next steps.

    What to Do in the First 24 Hours

    This checklist offers clear steps to follow after a loved one’s passing — adapt it to your needs.

    • Call someone you trust for support
    • Take breaks to eat, hydrate, and breathe
    • Allow emotions to come and go freely
    • Avoid major decisions unless necessary
    • Arrange care and feeding for pets
    • Secure the home (lock doors, windows, vehicles)
    • Preserve perishables such as food, plants, and medication where necessary
    • Notify necessary people (see below)
    • Full legal name, birth date, and social security number
    • Driver’s license or state ID
    • Name and contact info of primary doctor
    • Any written funeral, burial, or cremation wishes
    • Insurance card or Medicare number
    • Cell phone or important contact numbers
    • Immediate family or close friends
    • Funeral Home or Cremation Service
    • Religious or spiritual support (if desired)
    • Employer or school (if relevant)
    • Doctor or care team (if involved)
    • Legal representatives or estate contact

    What to Say When Sharing the News

    Family & Close Friends

    Hi (name), I have bad news to share that (name) passed away today at (details). I don’t have much more information but I wanted you to hear as soon as possible.

    Consider asking key people to contact others so you don’t need to call everyone

    Family & Close Friends

    For your support system

    Hi (name), my friend/family member (name) passed away. This is going to be a complicated time for me to navigate and I could use a little extra support. I will keep you informed on how you can support me.

    Let people know ways they can help—small gestures like meals, check-ins, or errands make a big difference.

    For your support system

    Not Sure Where to Start?

    Schedule a free consultation with a probate specialist who can help educate you on
    your options and navigate the probate process with you, should you need or want
    help.

    Book a call

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